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THE BOB WILSON HOLISTIC METHOD

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

ROLE-PLAYS

by Bob Wilson at autoenglish.org

Smile Say sorry Be kind Try new things

These role-plays are specifically designed for primary school children to help them learn how to deal with emotionally challenging situations.
BACKGROUND: these role-plays are inspired by the work of  psychiatrist Professor Steve Peters, especially his books The Silent Guides and My Hidden Chimp. I highly recommend them.

ROLE-PLAYS FOR EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

HOW TO USE THE ROLE-PLAYS
1 The class needs to be split into groups of 5, preferably with an adult assistant working with each group.
2 Give an example role-play for each category with the participation of the teacher and volunteers.
3 Now let the groups be creative and make up their own situations related to the topic. Give them 5-10 minutes to do this.
4 Now each group performs their role-play in front of the class.
5 Encourage questions and comments after each role-play is performed.
SMILE POWER
1. WARM-UP: Make a happiness list.
1 Ask each group to make a list of things which make them happy.
2 Then ask each group to briefly tell the class some of the things on their lists.
2. EXAMPLE ROLE-PLAY

Smile, please.

 

(A group of students are standing talking to each other. Another student, A, approaches them.)

 

A STUDENT FROM THE GROUP

Go away. This is private.

(Student A goes and sits down with a sad face.)

 

Enter STUDENT B.

STUDENT B

Hey! What's the matter?

STUDENT A

Nobody wants to play with me.

STUDENT B

I want to play with you. Smile, please.

(Student A smiles.)

STUDENT B

Feel better?

STUDENT A

Yeah.

STUDENT B

Come on! Let's get out of here.

3. Groups prepare their role-plays. Creativity time!
Now each group prepares a role-play about a sad situation that ends with a smile.
4. Comments and discussion
Allow the class to comment on the role-plays.
I'M POLITE
1. WARM-UP: Make a ways of being polite list
1 Ask each group to make a short list of ways of being polite.
2 Then ask each group to briefly tell the class some of the things on their lists.
2. EXAMPLE ROLE-PLAY

After you.

 

(A herd of students are charging through a door on their way to the playground. Another student, Student A, is waiting to come in but can't because of the stampede. Suddenly, one of the charging students stops)

 

STUDENT B (One of the charging students)

After you.

STUDENT A

Thank you.

STUDENT B

You're welcome.

(Both students smile and Student A enters the building.)

3. Groups prepare their role-plays. Time to be creative!
Now each group prepares a role-play about a situation where it is good to be polite.
4. Comments and discussion
Allow the class to comment on the role-plays.
SAYING SORRY
1. WARM-UP: Make a happiness list.
1 Ask each group to make a list of things which make them happy.
2 Then ask each group to briefly tell the class some of the things on their lists.
2. EXAMPLE ROLE-PLAY

I didn't mean it.

 

(Ana is crying and holding a piece of paper)

 

BETTY

What's the matter?

ANA

Carla said my drawing is rubbish.

BETTY

I think your drawing is really nice. Can I keep it?

ANA

Sure.

BETTY

Smile, please.

ANA

Sure.

(Students A and B both smile.)

Exit Ana.

Enter Carla.

CARLA

What's that?

BETTY

It's a fantastic drawing Ana gave me. Do you like it?

CARLA

It's ok.

BETTY

Why did you tell her it was rubbish?

CARLA

I didn't.

BETTY

Yes you did! She's really upset. You should say sorry.

CARLA

You're right.

Enter Ana.

CARLA

Hi, Ana. I'm sorry I said your drawing was rubbish. I didn't mean it.

ANA

OK. Don't worry.

CARLA

Will you do a drawing for me?

ANA

OK.

CARLA

Thank you.

 

3. Groups prepare their role-plays. Creativity time!
Now each group prepares a role-play about saying sorry.
4. Comments and discussion
Allow the class to comment on the role-plays.
 
 

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